Love Failure Counselling

Alfred Lord Tennyson said, "Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all". Anyone who's ever loved someone and then lost that person, knows how much pain it can cause. Love failure can make you feel emotional pain in a way that nothing else can. Sometimes, this pain can get so bad that you find it hard to move on.

When your heart breaks and you're in pain, even something as simple as going through your daily routine can feel like a daunting task. If you're experiencing love failure and are not sure about how to deal with it, then love failure counselling is a good option for you.

What is love failure?

Leo Buscaglia said, "Love is always bestowed as a gift - freely, willingly and without expectation. We don't love to be loved; we love to love". But the truth is, when a person loves another, that person expects to be loved back as well. But this does not always happen. Then it is considered to be a love failure.

At other times, two people might love each other and be happy in their relationship. But due to certain reasons, one person might break up with the other. That is also a kind of love failure.

What are the causes of love failure?

Each person is different, so are their relationships. Hence, there are numerous different things that can cause love failure. Some of those causes are-

• When there's a lack of trust.
• When one person does not like the one who loves him/her.
• When a person's ego gets in the way.
• When there's a lack of proper communication.
• When one or both the people have an anger management issue.
• When there are compatibility issues.
• When a person is not getting enough time for the relationship.
• When two people have very different life goals and decide to go their separate ways.
• When people value their job/work more than the person who loves them.

How to be happy after love failure?

Like the saying goes, "You can't make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. And the rest is up to the person to realise your worth".

Even if the person you love doesn't realise your worth, you can still find happiness. Given below are a few love failure advice that you can follow in order to feel happy again.

• Give yourself time. No one is asking you to feel happy and upbeat the day after you experience love failure. Take a few weeks to process what happened. Take some time to understand what went wrong. Give yourself time to heal and move on. In some cases, it might take months for this to happen.
• Accept what has happened. When a person experiences love failure, they go through different stages of grief. Many people go through denial and refuse to accept what has happened. Be it a breakup or a rejection by someone they love. Accepting what happened is an important step of the healing process.
• Forgive. You may think, "easier said than done". And it is true. Forgiving the person who hurt you can be very hard. But in order for you to heal and move on, you need to find a way to forgive the person who caused you pain. Without forgiveness, there can be no inner-peace.
• Self- esteem. When you're going through a heartbreak, your self- esteem takes a serious hit. It makes you feel even worse. So, you need to do certain things that would help you in boosting your self-esteem. This includes making a list of all the things that you like about yourself.
• A strong support system. Most people have friends and family who care about them. People who listen when they talk and offer advice when it's needed. Those people are your support system. Take the help of your support system if you're going through heartbreak.
• Try Counselling. If you're not able to manage your emotions by yourself, then you can speak to our love failure counsellors. They are certified therapists and hence, are well-equipped to help you overcome your predicament.
• Be social. While experiencing love failure, socialising might be the last thing on your mind. But still, it is something that you must do. Go out with your friends. Do things that made you happy before you had a breakup or a rejection. Let yourself remember that your life and your happiness is not connected to just one person.

Love Failure Counselling at OnlineCounselling4U

We, at OnlineCounselling4U, understand that you might be having a hard time after experiencing love failure. Our psychotherapists are here to help you get through this. You can receive the love failure counselling you need from the comfort of your home. We help you connect with online counsellors and therapists that are well-versed in ways for helping you overcome your dilemma. You can speak to them through phone or chat.

The therapists are available 24/7. Other than our certified therapists and counsellors, the best thing about us is that we provide counselling in multiple languages. With us, you can find counsellors who would talk to you in Hindi, English, Marathi, Kannada, Tamil, Bengali, Odia, Telugu, Urdu, Gujarati, Malayalam and Punjabi.

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