7 Ways to Love Someone Better

Love is a wonderful feeling to experience as a human being. Of course, we experience love when we perceive someone as desired and that leads to the release of happy hormones like dopamine, serotonin and oxytocin in our body. Truly loving someone without any strings attached and expecting nothing in return is an Unconditional Love which makes life a whole level of better to live. Love is a feeling which needs some action to thrive.

Love doesn’t happen right away firstly, attraction develops with the other person which is limited to the physical attributes. But love develops when the attraction moves away from just physical attributes to the emotional and intellectual level. You try to be understanding and bring happiness in the relationship to make it worthwhile. By loving someone, you learn to become generous, appreciative and empathetic.

Love is a basic need for a human to live a good quality of life filled with positivity. Loves provides us a reassurance that you will be given care and affection always. Without love, life seems incomplete and no motivation exists to fulfil other basic needs of life and then they can’t grow and develop in life.

People in love become vulnerable as open themselves up in front of their partner whom they trust and this makes the relationship stronger than ever. Also, good relationship doesn’t happen in one day but it takes time, efforts and support.

What are best ways to Love Someone Better

Whether you are in a relationship, or new to love, it’s always good to become better at it. We show our love to others through various actions but what if I tell you that you could improve the quality of your actions and love someone better. You just need a little guidance. To do that following ways can be used:

1. Show Affection and Appreciation

Start finding happiness in small things and gestures that will show affection and attraction. It makes the bond even stronger. Tell them ‘I Love You’ every day. Don’t ever underestimate the significance of these words. They work wonders in a relationship as they bring reassurance to your partner as they will think that you still care and want them to feel happy. There are few other ways also to show affection:

• Text them cute messages telling them how lucky you are to have them in your life or just give a compliment,
• Bring flowers or
• Leave a love note in the purse
• Always Say ‘Thank You’

2. Explore new things together

Don’t just bind yourself and your partner into a monotonous routine. Keep exploring new activities and also be open to new suggestions as well. This will bring excitement and spontaneity to the relationship. You can:

• Plan a date to a new place once a week
• Try a new hobby together
• Stay physically active and exercise together
• Cook together at the end of the day and try new recipes
• Watch TV Shows and Movies together
• Renew your vows from time to time
• Host a party or a get together
• Travel to new places

3. Prioritize

Many things are important in life like parents, career and friends but it is essential to prioritize relationship with your partner to make it long lasting. Always check with each other and talk about what you are doing. Don’t keep an eye on each other but just a regular check in so that communication is there. Scheduling couple time is also needed in a relationship. Make good memories with each other while spending quality time together. And always treat each other with respect and courtesy which will show that you both are important for each other.

4. Develop ‘I’ Talk instead of ‘We’

You and your partner are two people with separate point of views and opinions. So, always communicate by saying, I think or I would like to. This kind of talk will promote expressiveness so that other person can try to understand what is wrong exactly. This will really help in the problem solving that is done in the relationships because people are not mind readers, they have to be told what you are feeling and thinking. Always maintain respect and dignity with each other and don’t overstep the boundaries that can be a threat to the relationship.

5. Practice Forgiveness

It is a decision that avoids feelings of resentment and revenge. It helps in moving on from an argument or a fight that happened. One has to be patient enough and just think of the reason for the hurtful behaviour. And simultaneously express your concerns and opinions to your partner calmly. It is good to forgive instead of taking revenge because revenge will only increase the pain and forgiveness will lead to more understanding and improve the quality of the relationship. Learn to put your ego aside and say ‘Sorry’.

6. Be a Good Listener

It is essential to listen to your partner with full attention as it will give the message that you care for your partner. While your partner is saying something, make eye contact, keep nodding, and keep your posture straight so show that you are interested. Remove distractions from the surroundings so that you can pay full attention to your partner. And at the end, always summarize everything and say it back to your partner. It will give the confirmation that you were really listening.

7. Show Interest in them

Following are the ways that helps to show interest in the relationship:

• Express your gratitude to each other
• Support your partner’s dreams and goals
• Experiment in the bedroom
• Participate in each other’s hobbies
• Compliment each other
• Engage in self-growth together

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