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How To Stop Your Partner From Shouting At You:  8 Proven Techniques

By OnlineCounselling4U

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Have a light conversation

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Have a casual conversation with them to stop your partner from shouting at you. There is no requirement that it be profound or meaningful.

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Have time to cool off

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When the shouting becomes unbearable and you feel like you have no control over the situation, leave the situation. 

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Recognising the issue

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Once you've convinced your Partner that there is a communication gap, convince him/her that this gap is leading to a host of issues in your relationship.

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Accepting the issue

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Have an open mind when your partner eventually explains the cause of this, and let's say the issue is tied to you. This is when a lot of acceptance is required.

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Make him/her aware of how it affects your children.

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Make your partner understand how shouting at you in front of my child is having an impact on your children.

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Consider being patient

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Ask you to have a lot of patience. You'll start appreciating your partner for trying once you notice a small improvement. Affirm this change with your partner.

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Motivate your partner to seek therapy

7.

The victim of shouting may experience severe stress and trauma. This has usually brought on depression. Request that he/she visit a therapist.

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Don't take it anymore, tell him/her.

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It's difficult to deal with Shouting in anger. You must let your partner know that you will no longer tolerate his screaming if he/she doesn't stop.

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